weepej wrote:
SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
How many of them 'bother' to do anything - as a genuine matter of interest?
They are all interested, but normally the errant driver has put their phone down by then. Three have had words though, one on foot, one on a motorbike, and one in a car.
Well that is good. Curious though - if you saw them why didn't the policewo/man ?
weepej wrote:
SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
I think it a bit of an assumption that he was lost ...
It's an assumption, but he had an A to Z, was on the phone, and was very angry when I asked if he thought what he was doing was sensible, also he was clearly agitated before I intervened and much more so afterwards. He looked pretty lost to me.
I must say I would have just helped him as much as I could to prevent the ongoing use of the phone - depending on circumstances possibly asked about a headset at most.
I would generally never intervine or judge, either it is not my place. If danger was apparent then I may have spoken to a nearby copper or called them.
I see that helping him to be less frustrated (and so drive better) is the prime concern especially from what you describe. Making someone more agitated makes them have less patience and does nothing for road safety. For some it can mean the beginning of such anger that could lead to road rage and that is really not a good idea. Helping to calm the situation down and diffuse any aggression is far better - that is a whole heap better than 'enforcement'.
I agree your description sounds awful, but judging appropriate action than just 'enforcement' is exactly what is going wrong on the roads.
weepej wrote:
SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
The point about the Police is that they can 'book' for an error but when appropriate to educate then often a motorist will learn
Sorry, I just don't get what there is to learn about not using a mobile phone when driving your car, it's illegal, (there can't be anybody who been in the country more than five minutes that doesn't know this) and it impedes your driving.
I agree that using a mobile in your hand
can distract drivers but not all, I agree it can be a road safety issue but it is not 'our place' to judge. We do not know the whole situation.
I don't see what 'being in the Country' quite has to do with it - was he a foreign vehicle ?
Even so we have as you describe and what I will go on at face value :
van driven badly
lost driver
attempting to sort out his 'problem' to a location by using map and phone.
Now what if - he was desperately trying to find the hospital or a car park, to 'arrive in time' to his dying partner ? Something really critical in life.
What if every minute counted ?
There could be a 1000 reasons. Before you say that the mobile phone use was illegal - OK yes it was. The reason we have Courts is that they can 'judge' the balance of appropriate behaviour by human beings, given the Laws of the Land at the time of the offence.
So what is 'right'? - yes pointing out his error that it was illegal but that had a worsening effect on him (as you state), so now to add to his troubles (whatever they are) he is now worse off. Your actions raised his stress than reduced it. People who are stressed drive worse not better.
However to help him would have reduced his stress - try to understand his problem too would have reduced his stress level. Now he finds you as a 'helper' you have earned respect, then a gentle comment - head set not working ? - or some such, would tell him that you noticed his illegal 'action' and he might tell you the genuine truth - and remember and act better next time. You have then created a 'win, win' situation.
I am not saying he would have cared, he might not, but just that you never gave him the chance to - your actions made it worse from what you say. That is more likely to result in worse driving than better, what have you gained from this ? You reported and got satisfaction that one person using a mobile is now booked. But what results? Will he drive better - has he 'learned' ? Unlikely. To teach typically, you need a positive environment not a negative one.
I see that it is not our place to educate other drivers, unless asked of course. Report to police if you feel that you have to, they can judge and ask hopefully appropriately.