BottyBurp wrote:
willcove wrote:
BottyBurp wrote:
You're right, I shouldn't have implied that ALL 4x4 drivers are berks. It's just all the one's that I have experienced.
No, just the ones you've
remembered 
and experienced...

We see what we expect to see. Our prejudices help us forget what don't want to see and amplify what we do want to see. Ergo, someone who has already concluded that 4x4 drivers are aggressive will actively look for that aggression while suppressing recognition of non-agressive acts. So, those incidents you remember experiencing are probably a very small part of your total experiences.
For example, when you last drove eastbound from the M5 on the M42, what was the make, model, and colour of the vehicle in front of you as you passed junction 2? Although you most certainly experienced that event, I suspect your recall won't be in sufficient clarity to be "evidence" of anything. In the same way, it's doubtful that you could recall or would recognise safe and courteous, but unremarkable driving for more than a very short time after the event. Thus, you would have forgotten the hundreds or even thousands of times you ecountered safe and courteous 4x4 driving yet retained the few incidents of aggression (possibly reinforced by cursing something about 4x4 tossers under your breath). Although safe and courteous 4x4 drivers might outnumber aggressive 4x4 drivers by hundreds (or even thousands) to one you remeber only the aggressive ones.
Because you haven't stereotyped non-4x4 drivers in the same way, you just deal with aggression from non-4x4 drivers and discard the memories almost as quickly as you discard memories of courteously driven 4x4s.
We see what we expect to see. There's no way we can take in every little detail of what's around us, so we take shortcuts that can lead to errors of perception (e.g. optical illusions).
Quote:
A bird in the
the hand is
worth two in the
the bush
The reason why most people think they see, "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" the first time they see that is because that's what they expect to see. It's the same with any preconceptions.
BottyBurp wrote:
Blimey Will, where do you live/drive???
I live in Cornwall and have lived in Hampshire and both sides of the Scottish Lowlands. I have clients in the West Midlands and London, and recently had clients in Liverpool and Manchester. I've also driven a fair bit in South Wales. So, I've driven in the same areas as yourself plus a few more and my perception is very different to yours.