Lum wrote:
Ahh yes, the "It's god's/allah's/whoever's will that I have an accident" argument. I really can't follow that argument it seems like the ultimate excuse to shirk responsibility for your own actions.
I'm told that the Koran has a line in it something like "Trust in Allah, but tie up your camel" that addresses personal responsibility, so ...
is it just a cultural thing?
The following actually happened to me, several years ago.
Driving down a one way street not far from to a Jewish temple at about 7:30AM Saturday morning, I'm approaching a green light (which means the pedestrians have a 'red hand'). Yes, the pedestrians are all - excuse me - Jews
in uniform. I'm accustomed to seeing all of them begin crossing anyway, but for reasons that add up to one half mischief and one half social research, I go to neutral and rev my

5.7L Corvette LT1 V8. Most of them register this 'clearing of a throat' as a threat to be respected, but one particularly brazen man [who seems to be] in his late 20s or early 30s continues. I am now close enough to hear his father [ - I'm almost sure - ] yell, "No, son, don't!"
The son's answer?
"I'll sue him!"
To shorten the rest of the story, he had to walk an extra five minutes for his hat, and five minutes back to temple, while a hundred people were forced to enter a temple through the back door, single file. (For those of you who forgot that I am a self-confessed former hoon ... I was giving a nonverbal sermon on humility and nonviolent protest

)
This was the first, but not the last, of several variations on this theme, with less and less mischief on my part as I've matured[?].
Trust me, I also have a point.
It isn't just a cultural thing - usually.
Some people are brazen.
Some people are showing off in the company of their peers. (This behavior has evolved into a jaywalking game that gets played every day after school, where the amateurs develop their skill in groups, and the experts do it alone.)
Some people are reckless. Shinimal Jose ring a bell to anyone?
These individual personality traits can be encouraged and thus magnified, left alone, or discouraged and minimized - in many, but never all - by sociocultural influences, but the traits begin in the individual, and are then affected from the outside one way or another.
I can't think of the other so-called 'reasons' right now, because I don't think in terms of crossing in front of vehicles anymore. I find that thinking in terms of crossing
behind vehicles whenever reasonably possible is safer to me and more polite of me. Suffice it to say that I think that etiquette and decorum have to be taught, it is seldom innate.