Rigpig wrote:
...The latest one is something about middle class (oops, I've given Cooler some fuel there

) couples moving from the town where they've made their money to the country where they hope to buy their dream home and integrate with the local community. Yeah right! Be treated like a turd because you're pricing the locals out of the market more like
Houses are places to live, not works of art to be bought and coseted until the value goes up.
Oh dear! That'll be us then!
Couldn't wait to get out of Manchester, then Mrs. Mole gets the chance of a job in (semi) rural West Cumbria and we grab it with both hands. Initially, I felt prety guilty about it for exactly the reason you describe but, after 8 years here, I've come to think that the problem isn't necessarily that simple.
For a start, the sort of place we were buying was the sort of price that wouldn't have attracted those locals least able to afford housing. Also, we do, at least live and work here - which means we pay Council tax and spend our money in the local economy - in fact, I get paid in Scotland and spend it in the local economy so that's maybe even better! Then there's the situation at Mrs. Mole's place of work which struggles to recruit peopel and which is under threat from two main problems:
1. The lack of enough population to justify its existence (it's a hospital) and
2. The problems it has recruiting people (laregly because of 1.)!
I have come to realise that all communities need a "critical mass" of people to support the necessary amenities and infrastructure. As another example, the village school that my daughter attends has 6 kids in her year. The schools also need kids if they are to continue to exist.
I also feel a bit better because by moving here and inflating the house prices (which I don't deny!) I have, at least removed some of the pressure on housing in Manchester. We've probably lost out overall by moving here. If we sold up tomorrow, I very much doubt we'd be able to afford our old house in Manchester!
Finally, as for being treated like a turd, I can honestly say I've never lived in such a friendly place!
What I DO have a problem with are second homes. These are often smaller and bought as run-down properties which are done up. These really do push prices up at the bottom end of the sector and create negative feelings amongst the locals (and rightly so, in my view)! Their owners contribute very little to the local economy but displace permanent residents from the area.
I think it's a complex problem and I freely admit that I might be part of it but there are advantages too!