Rumbly wrote:
Since then I haven't become any more careful, I have always tried to be careful, but I have worked hard to develop the skills that allow me to actually be careful
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You seem to say you're not any more careful, but you apply skills that result in you being more careful?
Hiya weepej, yes it does look a bit confusing now you have pointed it out, I'll try to explain better what I mean. Say 2 people were performing the same task, one very skilled and experienced the other with little skill or experience. If they both apply the same level of being careful to the task would you expect the outcomes to be the same?
If for instance you required a heart transplant in order to carry on living, who would you rather have perform the operation. Someone with no experience of doing heart transplants
clutching a book of instructions on how its done, or an experienced surgeon who has performed many such operations with a 99.9% (nobody is perfect!) success rate?
Even if they both apply the same level of being careful, the outcomes are likely to be very different.
To me anyway, being careful means doing something to the best of your ability, it is not possible to be more careful than that. So someone with a lot of skill and appling the same level of being careful to a task as someone with mediocre levels of skill is more likely to end up with a positive outcome. Put another way, can anybody do anything better than their best?
If your definition of being careful differs from mine (doing something to the best of your ability), what would your definition be?
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So you are more careful right?
No I don't think it would be true to say I am more careful. I think the problem here is that care and skill are being confused.
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And then you write this, which shows that these days you'd probably pass such a situation covering your brake pedal, which surely is being more careful (more careful than you originally were): -
Nope I'm now more skilled ... see above for my definition of being careful.
Rumbly wrote:
Yes on seeing 2 kids messing around on the pavement I should at bare minimum have slowed right down and had the brake pedal covered, seems like basic common sense now
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If this is the case I think its very sad that people have to experience the horror of killing/hitting a child before they modify their behaviour.
I don't think it is the case at all that people have to go through such experiences to modify behavior. People modify their behaviour all the time without killing/hitting anything.
If you drive, are you saying you were a perfect driver the very first time you ever drove? Or have you continually modified you behaviour and become more skilled over a period of time?
I believe what you are in fact implying here is that nobody should be permitted to do anything which might be at all dangerous unless they are totally completely 100% guaranteed not to injure themselves or anyone else while they go about it. I'd be interested to know how you would propose to train people to do anything much at all as almost everything (including eating and breathing) has some degree of danger.