Hiya Peyote
Always like to see you posting here.  

 very much from me, Ted and Vrenchen.  I have Krissi visiting me today,  and she and Mike say 
 
 
 to everyone as long time lurks and occasional posters to thos cycling chatter fora 

   They have gone back to cycling only chatter as chatting "driving standards and improving them" only seems to get them into "bother"  

 in those boards 

  I guess they have some sympathy for weepy - and why me, Ted and Wildy seek to reply hopefully re-assuringly - but with some tongue in cheek "tease/leg pull, banter and mischief in the case of the wild 
 
  
 
Peyote wrote:
WildCat wrote:
  Relevant specific points 
Sorry to paraphrase you WC, but I think you could be missing the big picture by focusing on the examples I plucked out of the air. What I was getting at was the roads are not exclusively there for the use of motorists. I would argue that the residents on the street they live in have more "right/priority" (not sure of the correct word) to the road than those using it purely as a means of getting from A to B.
Those residents would include both the 40% who have access to cars, as well as the 60% that don't.
I despair of the rat run situation.  I think some bad road engineering can be part of this.  I think we need to look at why the commuters use some side roads as a short cut.  

I do not know where you get the 40% car ownership figure from.  Most housholds around here are two/three car and I gather from an "Ask the Entire Family" spread across UK that they are experiencing likewise from the residential areas some of them live in.  Not all live out in the wilds like the Mad Cats and the "tame and stray  cats, frenzied felines and psycho pusses or tiggy tigers " 
 
    
 (Yep - I lose count of them all 

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But even so - I live at the bottom of a cul-de-sac myself.  Chose the house 'cos of the driveway/landscape potential and the large garage 
 
 I still tend to look for traffic even though this is a quiet road.  I do not ever cross a road if anything on wheels is approaching.  You could say that Swiss gendarme did teach me a lesson for life.  I have never forgotten what he said or the 
way he said this.  
 I think I have modelled my own dealings with the public on his example.   He was not rude to me.  He did not shout at me.  He just explained very firmly in what way I had broken the Swiss law and why that law existed. 

  I had just turned 14 years of age at the time .. 
But basically - to summarise what he said to me so many years ago now 
: we have a responsibility to others not to place ourselves and another person in any danger or nuisance.  Absusing the roads by lack of consideration falls into this category.
I have never forgotten his logic or the nice, almost paternal way he said this to me at the time.  He did speak decent English too. 

   He did it in German and then in English to me. 
Peyote wrote:
WildCat wrote:
Ach.. it was OT und sorry if you think I rudey when I blow up the point you raising here.   Pre-car era - you got trampled und hoof or wheel of a carriage pulled by horse if you strayed into their path.  I understand Londoners did get killed because of the volume of the horse-pulled hansom cabs on their roads in Victorian to early C20 era. 

Roads or bridle paths or "coaching routes" have  then, in reality, never been "play areas" for children in any era then.. und certainly were considered as "rights of passage" for travellers in the bye-gone days. 

   The motor car/lorry/bus/coach/motorbike/bicycle have replaced the horse/hansom cab/stagecoaches und are traffic moving along fast-ish trunk routes.  
They have always been play areas for children! 
As far as I am aware - only designated play streets have been officially recognised "play areas".   These are dwindling in number though.  
I do agree that our parks and  those planning housing estates do not seem to cater for young children's need for outdoor play areas or even old folks' need for a nice peaceful garden area 
 
 I do agree that  a social need here has to be addressed - so as families should have a safe haven to allow their kids to play relatively unsupervised within.    When I was a lad - I recall the local park near to where we lived -  had a play area for football, sailing toy boats, swings/see-saws/roundabouts and climbing frame .. and a warden on duty in the school holidays/after school in the summer.  Council cut backs seem to have made these extinct. 

   We all rode our bicycles to this play haven which I do recall using from age 3 -ish to age 15.  It no longer exists.  
 
 
  The  toy boating pool is an overgrown mud pool.   The play area with the swings etc has been converted to a skate board/BMX bike stunter  facility (OK  - that's good for the teenagers - but what about the tots/toddlers/infants/juniors? 

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But all the same - roadways -  unless specifically designated -  are not play areas. 
 
 A roads of 30/40/50 /60 mph  with houses on them are not "play areas"
You buy the house in the full acceptance of this fact of life at the time of purchase.  I personally would not choose to buy a house - but some have no choice.  Even so - you accept the conditions and take all known safety precautions :popcron: as relevant to your situation.   I call it being responsible and able to make decisions. 

   I enforce the laws.  I do not and will not dictate to folk as to how they choose to live their lives.  I willoffer, of course, advice as to how to keep safe/within the rubrics of the law and, hopefully,  advocate reason.
Peyote wrote:
As well as for the use of everyone else within that community, in addition to the "right of passage". It is simply that the balance has now swung far too much in favour of the "rights of passage" and away from the "community use". BTW these two uses are not mutually exclusive.
Road use , as Wildy pointed out, has  been heavily in favour of the rights of passage of the horse rider or hansom cab/pony /trap "driver."  Ie the thing you cannot argue with 
 
  I am not going to argue with a horse pulling a carriage any more than I am going to argue with anything on wheels heading my way at speeds faster than I can realistically and knowingly out run 
 
 I still call it common sense/courtesy/safety led  to wait at the kerb until the faster road user has passed me.    I am only waiting mere seconds after all. 
 
  Peyote wrote:
WildCat wrote:
In this case  - parent on pavement being a careful parent by holding the child's hand.  He broke free und ran into the car which just happened to be passing by them at this point.  Nothing anyone could have done. 
But their campaign should be pitched differently - und it might sound arrogant of me - but I think campaigning for the measures I suggest would have more long term impact than a blanket speed limit which would probably be ignored in any case.
If the road ist a rat run und used as short cut - then I would be asking questions as to why this become so und engineer the road they avoid to ease out the problem there - which could be just as simple as adjusting a traffic light setting to a green flow/clear red build up quickly situation. 

 und perhaps even sealing the road with a chicane at its mouth with the main road to try to deter folk from using a "residential as short cut".
There are all kind of other measures which would work better for longer term. 
 
 But if the unsafe choice of speed  at peak continue -then it prove the "inconsiderates" are yet again those who live on it - the complaining residents 

  or the mumpty brigade 

I think we are probably just looking at this issue from two differing (not necessarily opposing) points of view, and you make a logical argument, though I'm not sure I agree with much of it. Reducing speed limits in residential areas is a valuable tool in reducing these 
kind of incidents, but it is not the only one available and shouldn't be shelved just because there are more "motorist friendly" tools available.
Unfortunately Peyote.  This was one of those accidents which would have occurred if the car was stationary.  This little boy for some reason broke free from his parent's hold.  He ran in the direction of the road.  Maybe the little chap saw a pal across the road .. but he will have seen something to captivate and focus on.   It was pure tragedy that he did so apparently just as car passed.  
From what I understand - he ran into this.  There have been many other  such tragedies from time to time.  In the  past - they never made the press. 
 
 
I would say Wildy 

 makes a valid point in requesting folk think of how this affected that driver.  I have dealt with blameless "causers #" in extreme shocked trauma as well as "liable" and charged accordingly with an offence.  But we do not and should not deal with those we charge with contempt.  Sometimes it was a careless/undue care /negligent sslip - but that does not mean we treat them with disrespect or lack of understanding all the same.    I think they accept their fines or jail terms with a learning curve if we do so.    Rubbing a nose into a misdemeanour is as callous and unjustified  as rubbing a puppy's nose into its own "mess" when house-training it.  As in 
 you don't do it   
A cyclist would have been seriously injured in such a scenario - had this child run into a bicycle. 
 
BUT 
 Peyote= I would say no one could be charged over what happened in the  scene as reported. 
My thoughts are with the child's parents and the driver and family.  Pray God they each find solace and come to terms  with loss and only recall the happy times with their child and that the driver accepts he couk#ld not avoid and makes peace with the family here.