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So in Neils original post, where the accident victim simply gets out of their car and shouts at the other driver - regardless of the tone of language being used - whilst maintaining the physical distance between them, you'd agree that being shot at in return would be unacceptable? If so, why bring up the gun issue in the first place, and if not, then why not given what you've just written?
If you have a gun, you have power to protect yourself. If you have no gun, the coppers use power to protect you.
But what, exactly, are you being protected from, hmm? A bit of verbal abuse. If someone is so thin skinned or easily offended that they need to carry a gun or have the support of the local police force to protect themselves against a raised voice and a few choice swear words, then perhaps they're the ones who need to seek professional help.
Remember, we're not talking about being protecting the accident-causing driver from a genuine threat of physical attack, we're talking about an innocent driver, shocked and stunned on the receiving end of someone elses driving mistake, verbally lashing out at the idiot who's just placed their life at risk. Can't you see the difference between this sort of confrontation and one where an ability to perform self-defence (directly through use of personal weaponry, or indirectly through use of a third-party interceding on your behalf) IS genuinely necessary?
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there's grounds for treating a clearly avoidable accident as if there was a certain level of deliberate action involved.
Like the Russian bloke who shot the air traffic controller in Zurich? No way - there is nothing personal in it.
I wasn't suggesting we should start shooting at numpty drivers who collide with us because of their incompetence, nor was I suggesting that there might be something personal in an accident. Indeed, even if someones actions are deliberate, that doesn't mean there must be a personal aspect involved as well. But if someone, as a result of their incompetence, causes an accident to occur, it should be treated in a different way to an accident that occurs more, how shall I put it, accidentally. Someone collides with the rear of your car because they weren't paying attention. Someone collides with the rear of your car because their brakes suddenly failed. Are they both the same kind of accident? Not in my book, and if I were the victim in both of these scenarios my feelings towards the driver hitting me in the former would be
very different towards the driver hitting me in the latter. Is that wrong?
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Let's not forget the true victim of the example, the innocent driver who's just been on the receiving end of a collision, with all the resultant mental and physical shock that entails.
But most of all, let's not forget the damage to the shiny toy. Listen - anybody involved in an accident must pay due regard to the other people's heath and safety before whining about the damage to their car's bodywork! Simple as that.
True, but that doesn't mean the material damage isn't also important. Damaged vehicles can be repaired or replaced, but someone has to pay for that, someone will be inconvenienced by that. If the poor behaviour of another road user cause me financial penalty and/or to expend my time and energy getting my car repaired or replaced, then don't I have a justifiable reason to be angry with them even if no-one was injured?