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IMO thats illegible. Sorry Wildcat but I find most of your posts unreadable :(


Parrot .. I live with her. Read it again. Just replace "ist" with "is" and "und" with "and"///


It does become clearer. :lol:

She cannot help it. God knows the entire family has tried.. :lol:

She's original anyway.. I'm biased! She's my wife! I love her and I live with her.. so I guess her posts seem "normal" enough after 2o+ years :lol:

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on most occasions when i am 'mortally threatened' by poor drivers, be it on bike or in car..... it's entirely predictable, giving me a number of seconds to respond appropriately and defensively.

sure i'd rather they weren't doing so and i might get a little irritated by it, but i'd rather not pit my squishy bits against their metalwork.

generally i choose defensive positioning to start with and mitigate most of their actions before they develop into a problem.... i'd suggest everyone else should do the same.


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Really cannot be bothered to read so will reply to all points as I see them by quoting and adressing them all/


I would ask you miguel to bite bullet and read my wife's reply. Just substitute "ist" for "is" and "and" for "und" and you'll be OK. I know my wife and she was not being "cheeky" to you either .. but more trying to understand you and help you get over that pent up anger.

My wife, for record, is of the intelligence which goes off board and the truly intelligent are a bit "eccentric",.

I' m used to her.. after over 20 years of marriage. I can appreciate that others may be a little less tolerant of the language barrier .. but this woman is eccentric and stubborn Appenzeller in full flavour :lol:

And there is another little factoid to take into account.. when you are dealing with an extreme intelligent force ... there's a childlike innocence of simplicity at core

I recall the Wildy reply in answer to a PH plea over ladies jewellery and the now PH-folklore reply by my lovely wife over "strings of pearls" :rotfl:

It was a classic! :rotfl:


Her face when I delicately explained this nuance of English "argot" to her was a right picture :rotfl:

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Geeze Paul, don't encourage him! He already thinks a response that is at least intimidating behavior, and quite likely some permutation of common assault, is acceptable behavior on our roads!

Gotta tell you Miguel, if a cyclist punched my vehicle in anger they would guarantee that they'd be coming off their bike, and would in all likelihood find themselves face down on the pavement, in a rather uncomfortable position, under citizen's arrest, awaiting the arrival of the plod to escort them to less than luxurious quarters. I would press criminal charges to the fullest possible extent, in addition to civil action for any damages, injury or distress.

It's worth considering this potential outcome the next time you feel entitled to lash out violently as a form of expression, take a deep breath and save yourself the bother.

All cycles should have bells, if you feel this is inadequate for venting your frustrations, why not invest in a compressed air horn, that'd be a great way to announce your presence to the oblivious, without fear of a criminal record![/quote]

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So if I understand you correctly Robin, if I felt that my life had been put in danger by your careless, inconsiderate, incompetent or selfish driving and I banged on the roof or window to express my anger you would run me down and assault me. Oh and then you would sue me for the injury and distress I had caused you! Ha ha ha. You are a funny guy. You can of course utter such idle threats because you do so from the safety of an internet forum.

Until such time as I can go about my normal business as a cyclist or as a pedestrian without fear of injury or death from idiot motorists I shall continue to bang on car roofs, I shall continue to forcibly remove aerials and windscreen wipers and I shall continue to remove idiot motorists keys from their cars and throw them into traffic. (You will have noticed from my thread that I only do such things to idiots who threaten my health and safety. Ill write that again for your benefit. I only do such things to idiots who threaten my health and safety). With any luck you wont encounter me on the road, with any luck you wont cut me up dangerously and youll have no reason to try and get out of your vehicle whilst I am standing with my foot on your door beating your car with what is left of your windscreen wiper. Assault me? Tut tut. You could try.


Miguel.. road rage is road rage and what you just posted is just that. Road rage.

I am one of what I hope to be to good guys on the road. I would never deliberately or knowingly cut up another. I consider myself to be courteous and COAST aware at all times. If someone makes a mistake.. I do my best to diffuse that error.. keep me and those I am sharing road with including the numpty in the car or the lycra lout on the bike as safe as I know how at the time.

If someone threatened me in the way you suggest.. then I woould use my hands free to dial 999.. would engage on-board dictaphone to record and even though I argued with mosis over on board cameras.. I do have such a facility on our cars..... though we tend to use these on hols to appreciate scenery into the edit of family home movies as well as teach our young :wink:

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Oh and banging on a car roof isnt 'violence', it might reasonably be referred to as criminal damage but it isnt 'violence'. Unless you really do think that your vehicle is an ... er...'extension' of your self.


Then it's a good job you do not live in Austria, Germany or Switzerland as just waving a finger can land you with a fine. I should think banging on a car might land you in a prison cell there.


An d criminal damage can be an offence which has a custodial sentence after all.

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The best way to avoid such a situation of course is to treat other road users with the respect that they deserve as fellow human beings and subjects of Her Majesty. Dont treat me like shit, I wont beat your vehicle. Simple :)


So why don't you apply manners.


Manners beget manners after all...:wink:

And did you not tell me you don't cycle that much because of health?

My wife does not do long rides or steep uphills.. but she can manage 20 miles at sedate pace. We work with her capability when we plan our rides and charity epics.

For all the bad mouthing on a "for cyclists only" forum.. a lot of so-called petrol heads rid bicycles. Most of us "petorlheads" take a pride in the skill of cycling and driving. None of us oddly enough "aim cars at or show disrespect" to other road users.

We may say on the boards that we came across muppet from hell ..and said muppet could be pedestrian, cyclist, biker, car.van/lorry driver. We accept muppets exist.. we try to diffuse their danger to us as responsible road users and try to do so without rage whch can lead to day in court.

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Sorry I thought you said that I would be 'coming off my bike and would find myself face down on the pavement'. How were you hoping to acheive this?

Im certainly no 'tuf nut' but neither am I the kind of cyclist who will wave a cheery hello in response to having my safety threatened.

I am entitled to ride my cycle on the road without fear of death and injury. I am absolutely right to expect that other road users excercise their duty of care to me as a valid road user. When someone endangers me either through incompetence or stupidity they wilfully cross a line. If someone were to point a loaded gun at me or wave a broken glass in my face they would have crossed a line. Its the same fecking line.



Miguel .. I ride a bicycle. In Gear rides a bicycle. My wife rides a bicycle. Her brothers an sister do. He many cousins do. My own family circle do. Most of the PH posters do. Significant number of safepeed users and members do.

So.. we all want to be safe.. in our cars.. on our bikes and on our feet as the pedestrians we all are :wink:


I do not have the right as pedestrian, cyclist, biker, driver to threaten another with violence or take the law into my own hands. I do not have to refer you to IG.. bit to Weird Neville, Stephen, Man/Thermos, vonhosen, IanH, Iaha, mungo, siverbackmike, Dibble, john robson/ gemini and all those BiB who give us much insight into and appreciation of their jobs by virtue of the internet and by doing so do much to heal all rifts perceived or otherwise.

Rage begets rage and no matter how much someone annoys me out there.. I have a responsibilty to my wife and family to return in one piece to them. I will thus bite lip .. mutter twazak.. chalk to experience and learning curve and just concentrate on enjoying my car /bicycle and my skills at thwarting numpty and smug feeling that what goes around comes around :wink:



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Anyhoo, Ill happily wait around for the police to arrive. I have the courage of my convictions.


Which could see your convicted :wink:

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On the one occasion that the polis did turn up Id been riding along a one way street when I encountered a car coming the wrong way, I had to swerve to avoid being hit because he headed straight towards me at speed. I followed him to the end of the road, put my bike on the road in front of him and ripped off his wiper. He couldnt get out of the car because I was somewhat ' in the way'. I spent ten minutes shouting at him until the police turned up, booked him and sent me on my way with a merry 'you shouldnt really have damaged his car sir', *wink*. Nice.




I do not really believe that on the grounds I can be charged and fined for a burglar slipping on the ice on our path, having bite marks from our dogs, tearing his clothing on any barbed wire on our land.. I think you embellish your tale a bit here.. and to quote B Cyclist

B Cyclist and basic gist of all past quotes wrote:

It's an anecdote. It's not "peer reviewed" and am not beliving it because you use them smiley gius and it hurts my eyes



See my point miguel.. you give us an anecdote. Given the nonsense per above.. forgive me if I post

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Like I really believe that one :wink:


I am sorry if it offends. I really am not getting at you or even attacking you
. But I am only giving like to like reaction here. :wink:

I do not wish you to take that personally as believe me it is not aimed at you.

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One of my favourites was kicking the sh!t out of the back wheel of a bike ridden into me on the pavement by a fifty something bloke who had then loudly objected that I hadnt get out of his 'effing' way. I suspect he had to walk home as the wheel wouldnt turn in the frame.


I think I should warn you that my sister Julie did contact the journalist who wrote this article and suggest he looked at comments on the internet.

It's still road rage and given your previous post and I mean this as a caring doctor and not as a car lover drawn to discuss road safety on safespeed and PH - I still urge you to seek some help and ask CTC for a trainer who can help you diffuse your rage and ride and drive and cope with life's fallibilties at all times.

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miguel - I see pogo also considers there are some anger management issues.

I really do no know if this is linked to the treatment you mentioned. Again.. I am a "lurgy chap". Mike is the oncologist and I know he is monitoring as he did say to me off line that he has no history of patient and can only suggest patient sees specialist to discuss side effect of whatever prescribed as it appears to be making you "illogically angry at the world"

Please believe me .. it's posted in friendship and genuine concern for another fellow human being.



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On the one occasion that the polis did turn up Id been riding along a one way street when I encountered a car coming the wrong way, I had to swerve to avoid being hit because he headed straight towards me at speed. I followed him to the end of the road, put my bike on the road in front of him and ripped off his wiper. He couldnt get out of the car because I was somewhat ' in the way'. I spent ten minutes shouting at him until the police turned up, booked him and sent me on my way with a merry 'you shouldnt really have damaged his car sir', *wink*. Nice.

One of my favourites was kicking the sh!t out of the back wheel of a bike ridden into me on the pavement by a fifty something bloke who had then loudly objected that I hadnt get out of his 'effing' way. I suspect he had to walk home as the wheel wouldnt turn in the frame.

I see you admit to taking the law into your own hands when the victim of a perceived slight. Enough said.


Yup. If having someone driving straight at me going the wrong way down a one way street can be classed as a 'slight'.



Miguel..I sometimes have had the bad luck to drive in Wigan.. Preston.. Kendal.. Not nice and relatively confusing layout for all .. I think I forgive drivers and cyclists alike there.

What I do not forgive is the cyclist who rides down a one way - wrong direction which has been so for 40 years .


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I understand that a number of fellows on this forum exceed the speed limit occasionally, that would be 'breaking the law' wouldnt it so dont come over all holier than thou.


We read of some twit posting that he exceeds 30 mph on his bike in 30 mph limit.


Plus a lot of garbage defending red light jumping.. and not giving way to pedestrians on shared paths plus one recorded gem by a so-called lawyer whose only claim to "qualification" on a "for cyclsist only forum" is copy typing "blackstones" and claiming tghe Highway Code is a Code for cyclists and "law for everyone else"


:roll:

sorry to be bearer of bad news but those who actually do the pay out.. name [i] insurance companies [/i[ usually take this into account and given CTC response to minor changes.. it would seem militia apparently agree with this.


I suppose this is why my family appear to receive such malice.
on a "for cyclists only forum courtesy of a well known troll of whome no one sane takes one jot of notice anyway.

We post up them awkward home truths though and I guess they get under the skin :hehe:

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I react as I do in response to people exposing me to mortal danger. As someone who has been hospitalised several times by car drivers and has spent months in a wheel chair as a result of being taken out by a drunk driver I feel strongly that it is entirely appropriate behaviour.


My wife Wildy :neko:... months in wheel chair. Nearly lost her
Driver taken ill. Her cousin? Died when unroadworthy lorry collided at low speed.

We do not repsond with hate or violence. My wife calmly had her driving re-assessed by IAM/RoSPA afer lessons with family and family BiB - and we owe IG and his team big time in reality


Unlike you - we like to react without blame or playing victim.. but with maturity and dignity and not ugly violence.

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Perhaps your claimed disgust at my behaviour suggests an inability to appreciate what it feels like to be threatened by a ton of steel driven by someone who cares so little for the wellbeing of vulnerable road users that they are prepared to take risks with their lives for the sake of a few seconds up the road. I suspect that you underestimate just how scary such close encounters with death are. Maybe you should try riding a bicycle for a week or two. You might start to appreciate where I am coming from.


I do ride. I ride per COAST and Franklin;s advice, Oddly enough I have few problems by riding that way.


Please miguel- . just ask CTC fior details of training in your area. It really sounds as if you need this booster in skill development.

No one knows it all. Truly skilled will always seek to learn more after all/

I've some faith in you. I take some of what you say at face value. Please prove my faith in you by telling us about how much yiu are learning from all these very negative experiences of yours.

We never pretend world is perfect.. and we have to live with this imperfection and tyr to redress as best we can.

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I must say that whilst Miguel's actions appear to be disproportionate (and frighteningly regular), I have some sympathy with his anger at those that put his life at risk on a daily basis. I personally make sure, where possible that a driver knows of my presence when I have just avoided he/she from knocking me off - this is done by shouting. I think this is important and I do it in the belief that next time he/she may remember the occasion and engage brain to prevent the same happening to someone else further up the road.

However, as a cyclist you come to accept that you will be consistently cut up, turned in front of, pulled out in front of and generally overlooked by motorists. Drivers will ALMOST ALWAYS misjudge the speed of a fast cyclist unless they are one themselves. If I punched, slapped, kicked and dented every car driven by a motorist that had wronged me on an average ride, I would have very sore hands and feet. You have to get over it and cycle as defensively as possible.

What worries me most about this thread is that the threats of criminal damage and violence (and in my opinion that violence includes pulling a cyclist to the ground and detaining them against their will - I would not recommend trying this with a fit cyclist who has blood and adrenaline pumping through his/her veins after a fast ride) do nothing to promote a better understanding between cyclists and motorists.

I seem to repeat this preface on forums, but only to make sure fellow members know I am not biased in any direction: I am a keen cyclist, but I am also a keen motorist (I used to build and race cars for a living!). I have also studied accident causation working for a major insurer and have worked with TRL as part of same. Accordingly I like to think I take a broad perspective on these issues. My view is that motorists need to wake up to the presence of cyclists - the accidents and near misses involving cyclists and motor vehicles are are due to the same issues that concern us all - skill and experience. I say without hesitation that the problem is nearly always on the part of the motor vehicle driver. I have never seen a cyclist put a motorist in danger and I can count on one hand the number of cyclists I have seen IN MY DRIVING LIFETIME behaving in a way that genuinely put themselves in danger (unless you count getting on a bike in the first place). However, I don't have enough fingers to count the number of motorists I see putting cyclists in danger every single time I ride my bike or drive. Until speed cameras are scrapped and replaced with a proper programme of modern road safety measures that cover all road users then we will continue to experience these same old problems.

By the way, what is it about a cyclist exceeding the 30mph speed limit that makes him a twit?


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on most occasions when i am 'mortally threatened' by poor drivers, be it on bike or in car..... it's entirely predictable, giving me a number of seconds to respond appropriately and defensively.

sure i'd rather they weren't doing so and i might get a little irritated by it, but i'd rather not pit my squishy bits against their metalwork.

generally i choose defensive positioning to start with and mitigate most of their actions before they develop into a problem.... i'd suggest everyone else should do the same.


:yesyes:

But starting from a position of 'it's their fault' (i.e. blame) is a very significant barrier to efficient defensive planning. Miguel take note.

Also, 'risking escalation' is wholly incompatible with decent defensive strategies.

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on most occasions when i am 'mortally threatened' by poor drivers, be it on bike or in car..... it's entirely predictable, giving me a number of seconds to respond appropriately and defensively.

sure i'd rather they weren't doing so and i might get a little irritated by it, but i'd rather not pit my squishy bits against their metalwork.

generally i choose defensive positioning to start with and mitigate most of their actions before they develop into a problem.... i'd suggest everyone else should do the same.


:yesyes:

But starting from a position of 'it's their fault' (i.e. blame) is a very significant barrier to efficient defensive planning. Miguel take note.

Also, 'risking escalation' is wholly incompatible with decent defensive strategies.


Absolutely Paul, Ive been riding a bike for yeeeeeeears and Im still alive. I do ride defensively, I have an acute sense of my own mortality. I dont start from a position of ' its their fault' I respond when some muppet tries to kill me. I also know for a fact that if I didnt have the cycling skillls, situation awareness and appropriate 'defensive strategies' I would now be dead. Several times over.

Anyhoo surely its better from a psycological point of view to get this anger out than bottle it up?

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on most occasions when i am 'mortally threatened' by poor drivers, be it on bike or in car..... it's entirely predictable, giving me a number of seconds to respond appropriately and defensively.

sure i'd rather they weren't doing so and i might get a little irritated by it, but i'd rather not pit my squishy bits against their metalwork.

generally i choose defensive positioning to start with and mitigate most of their actions before they develop into a problem.... i'd suggest everyone else should do the same.


:yesyes:

But starting from a position of 'it's their fault' (i.e. blame) is a very significant barrier to efficient defensive planning. Miguel take note.

Also, 'risking escalation' is wholly incompatible with decent defensive strategies.


Absolutely Paul, Ive been riding a bike for yeeeeeeears and Im still alive. I do ride defensively, I have an acute sense of my own mortality. I dont start from a position of ' its their fault' I respond when some muppet tries to kill me. I also know for a fact that if I didnt have the cycling skillls, situation awareness and appropriate 'defensive strategies' I would now be dead. Several times over.

Anyhoo surely its better from a psycological point of view to get this anger out than bottle it up?

:gatso2:


Perhaps a 'trick' of mine will help. I view other road users as 'hazards to be avoided' or 'hazards to be mitigated'. I accept without reservation that there will always be idiots on the road, and it's very much my job to avoid them.

Consequently (and this is the important bit): I don't get angry with other road users any more than I get angry with bends. Both are just perfectly ordinary hazards. If I screw up and leave myself vulnerable to the error of another, then that's my responsibility - if anyone deserves my anger it's me.

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Yes - as soon as you reasonably can without fear of escalation. Ie, pull to the side of the road and have a good AAAAAAAAGH or similar.


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Yes - as soon as you reasonably can without fear of escalation. Ie, pull to the side of the road and have a good AAAAAAAAGH or similar.


I suppose that's good as a half-way-house, but I can't really see any logical basis for getting angry in the first place. Does ice on the road make you (you=anyone) angry? If not why should another road user? Their errors are not personal.

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Of all the post I have read on this thread I felt that the air-horn was the best idea. A loud blast from such a device would certainly get the attention of the driver of the car and may make them think about their actions. No one is hurt, no laws are broken and the message is given very clearly.

I do not ride a bicycle any more but if I did, and was cut up, the thought of firing off a blast at the drivers window and the look of shock on their face is priceless. Although, in the real world you would probably just hope that they would hear it from behind.

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Sorry I thought you said that I would be 'coming off my bike and would find myself face down on the pavement'. How were you hoping to acheive this?


By exercising reasonable force, as per my training, to effect a citizen's arrest. (Within the law, you see, Mr. 'law abiding')

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Perhaps your claimed disgust at my behaviour suggests an inability to appreciate what it feels like to be threatened by a ton of steel...


I can tell you that about an ounce of steel, propelled at suitable rate, is quite enough of a threat, and being on the receiving end of many thousands of those is a large part of my job! That aside, if you had read carefully you'd have noted that I am both a cyclist and a (motor)biker, in addition to a car driver, with many tens of thousands of miles under my belt on each. I can honestly say that, despite countless moronic acts on the part of their drivers, I have never felt the need to vandalise someone else's vehicle; in fact, with one noteable exception, I have been able to predict pretty much all of their foibles and, through appropriate pro-action, all but negated any ill-effects they may have had on me.

I understand the frustration you face, but there is no justification for becoming a criminal in response!

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Anyhoo surely its better from a psycological point of view to get this anger out than bottle it up?


Negative, not when 'getting it out' involves acts of violence! From a 'psychological' point of view, if your violent catharsis goes unpunished, then you are likely to escalate the violence in future. If you do, as you profess, make a habit of this sort of behavior, I do hope you are banged up before either you do someone some serious damage, or someone does you some serious damage in response to your disproportionate actions.


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Perhaps a 'trick' of mine will help. I view other road users as 'hazards to be avoided' or 'hazards to be mitigated'. I accept without reservation that there will always be idiots on the road, and it's very much my job to avoid them.

Consequently (and this is the important bit): I don't get angry with other road users any more than I get angry with bends. Both are just perfectly ordinary hazards. If I screw up and leave myself vulnerable to the error of another, then that's my responsibility - if anyone deserves my anger it's me.

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This is a very safe mindset but one that each individual will employ with varying success depending on their own physchological makeup and perception of risk.

It brings to mind a collision I was involved in some years ago. I was furious at myself afterwards because I didn't avoid it. A car coming the opposite way through light controlled crossroads drove straight into the osf of my car and pushed me up the pavement. We both came through on green but he was turning right across my path and thought his green light gave him priority to do so. Both cars were written off and there were minor injuries. My normally reasonable hazard perception, cautious approach to such junctions and as much avoiding action as was possible did not save us all a trip to hospital that day. However, I later took comfort in the fact that I had mitigated the severity of a nasty collision. If I had driven through assuming my green light meant it was 100% safe then we would have been very much the worse for it.

I have been thinking about the analagy of bends and drivers. Bends don't impede safe progress, on the contrary bends are enjoyable things and one of the joys of driving is learning how to read and negotiate them. However, an incompetent driver (or a competent driver making a human misake) can impede your safe progress and being human it is hard not to find this an annoyance.

My view is that the majority of collisions are primarily caused by one driver and although they can be avoided and the severity mitigated by skilled drivers (the mindset described by Paul combined with the skillset required to put this into practice), on a voluntary basis this will always be the minority. I think it is right that we consider fault as part of our road safety system and there should be a greater emphasis on punishing those at fault for collisions, instead of the current emphasis on compliance with regulation.


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miguel wrote:
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on most occasions when i am 'mortally threatened' by poor drivers, be it on bike or in car..... it's entirely predictable, giving me a number of seconds to respond appropriately and defensively.

sure i'd rather they weren't doing so and i might get a little irritated by it, but i'd rather not pit my squishy bits against their metalwork.

generally i choose defensive positioning to start with and mitigate most of their actions before they develop into a problem.... i'd suggest everyone else should do the same.


:yesyes:

But starting from a position of 'it's their fault' (i.e. blame) is a very significant barrier to efficient defensive planning. Miguel take note.

Also, 'risking escalation' is wholly incompatible with decent defensive strategies.


Absolutely Paul, Ive been riding a bike for yeeeeeeears and Im still alive. I do ride defensively, I have an acute sense of my own mortality. I dont start from a position of ' its their fault' I respond when some muppet tries to kill me. I also know for a fact that if I didnt have the cycling skillls, situation awareness and appropriate 'defensive strategies' I would now be dead. Several times over.

Anyhoo surely its better from a psycological point of view to get this anger out than bottle it up?

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But there are ways and means to let off steam and attacking or causing criminal damage to someone else's property is not the right way to set about it. It does not relieve the frustration.. more adds to it.

Perhaps miguel - you should buy Cycle Craft and read page 41/42 carefully.

If this guy is hailed as the expert in a current court case over "right to ride on the road" - then all his other words should be held in equal esteem. :wink:



John Franklin in Cycle Craft pages 41 to 42 wrote:

Having the right attitude towards yiour cycling and others is extremely important if you are to ride well and safely

Without the correct frame of mind - having an awareness boith of your rights and repsonsibilities - you will give yourself unnecessary problems by encouraging others to make mistakes or byannoying them needlessly. Research suggests that cyclists who are tolerant towards others have a significantly lower risk of conflict

The first thing to realise is that very few drivers are deliberately aggressive. They are simply intent, like you, on getting from one place to another with the minimum of trouble. Drivers do not choose to have a collision with a cyclist. Having said that .. people often do stupid things. The most common driver error is impatience. You also have to remember that driver training is inadequate - with the emphasis on passing the driving test than acquiring safe driving skills


Vonhosen would not agree with that one. I posted that I thought driving schools and the quality of the training was rather basic and Wildy and self shopped around.

Von kept replying to me and the :neko: on PH that the Driving Schools were adequate and that the current L-test was adequate for current requirements. We agreed to disagree. :lol: . yet he does agree with us over development and training. And he now calls me Mogsy and Wildy :neko: - Wildy :lol: :bow: :wink: when we chat to him over the road and over the garden fence :lol: so to speak. Funnily enough even seeing eye to eye on many issues too. :lol:

Basically we taught our kids COAST and a safety led approach - with emphasis on continual development of safe driving skills and practice. This was after the initial block of lessons to get a "handling feel and some basics". Followed by a block specifically aimed at perfecting the rubric of the driving test. We have eldest with a RoSPA qualification and the twins are also intent of learning more and keeping safe.

I thus disagree with John on this rather sweeping statement. I would say the attitude of militant lycra louts and chavs in general have zero idea of sharing anything let alone a road. But I would say that the Driving Instructors we did settle on for our young plus parental guidance did inded teach ours that we share the roads with everyone else and that the concept of good manners applies all the more out there.

John Franklin in Cycle Craft page 42 wrote:

It is rare for a driver to be taught about sharing the road with non-motorised traffic or anyhting about the difficulties faced by cyclists


I recall my own driving instructor telling me about the need to give pedestrians time to cross, be on alert for them and to give cyclists and horse riders plenty of space and time. (COAST existed back then as well then :wink:)

Apart from that we all walk and most of us rode bikes bikes as well. A lot of us.. stiill RIDE b bicycles and like I take a pride in driving to best of my ability.... and evaluate whatever happens on the road. I do the same when I ride my bicycle

Which means I am continually assessing, re-assessing, re-evaluating and constantly developing my skills and learning all the time


This bit on page 43 is very relevant

Not PetrolHead saying it .. but the man on whose words the CTC legal use by way of defence when in court cases :wink: So if his words are not valid .. :roll: And I have copy typed it. :wink: You can read it for yourself and buy your own copy with your Christmas money from your "framily" :wink: Not havin' mine: :wink:

John Franklin wrote:

Do not let yourself be annoyed by others, hwoever stupid their actions appear, This will take your attention from the road and could lead from a near miss to a certain hit.

One of the great advantages of cycling is that the physical effort involved can help dispel anger and frustration quickly and harmlessly. The same does not apply to a car driver who may continue to be upset by YOUR actions long after YOU have forgotten it.

Likewise do not retaliate with abuse or a siren. You may cause trouble for the next cyclist the driver meets.

Riding around with a feeling of superiority to others is also foolish A halo offers no protection against the bad driving and manners of others. Bad driving might even be encouraged by a "holier-than thou" attitude on the part of the cyclist

A sensible attitude to adopt when cycling is that your are equal to all other road users. Do not be submissive to others, exert your rights provided this does not put you in undue danger. Be prepared to yield to the rights of others and show tolerance and understanding of the difficulties other road users have. You must also appreciate that a cyclist is capable of causing injury or nuisance to others


Franklin does continue by saying hesitation, submissiveness and lacking confidence can also place a cyclist at risk.

So again .. contact the CTC and find about Bikeability courses near you for that injection of basics on which the build the essentials of experience and the constantly developing skills of judgement.

This book is really a MUST read for all - even if they have no intention of riding a bicycle.

I really cannot say fairer than that .. :lol:

But miguel - violence achieves nothing and damaging property will land you and not the person who annoyed you behind bars. Don't give the muppets that satisfaction - eh!

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Just thought I'd mention that an impact between the fleshy part of a cyclist and the sheet steel of a vehicle may not always constitute violence (at least not necessarily in an attempt to cause damage).

There have been several times that I can remember (while cycling) when a vehicle has tried to overtake, then turn left on me, when a prudent slap of a side panel caused the driver to rethink their strategy. I would point out the slap was intended to cause a sound, not to cause damage, usually after other warnings weren't heeded (hand signals, shouts etc.).

These actions are nearly always last resort and due to a desperation to be noticed/seen rather than anything aggressive.

I have considered an airhorn (Airzound I believe is their brand name)before, but apparently they tend to be quite fragile, and the temptation to use them on pedestrians would be too great!


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There have been several times that I can remember (while cycling) when a vehicle has tried to overtake, then turn left on me, when a prudent slap of a side panel caused the driver to rethink their strategy. I would point out the slap was intended to cause a sound, not to cause damage, usually after other warnings weren't heeded (hand signals, shouts etc.).


Yes, that's entirely different and potentially a life saver. The flat of the hand will make the loudest sound.

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But Peyote - you are one of the reasonable

What I would worry about is how hard you slap the car. :wink:


The scene you depict is one whereby primary positioning would be advisable - merely to prevent the overtake and thoughtless numpty action of cutting in on you to turn left.

Another thing.. drivers seem to misinterpret the glance back. They think the cyclist has seen them and thus they can overtake...:roll:

:nono: Cyclist glances back because he intends to change direction and hence position. There could a be a pothole or grid he wishes to steer clear of.. a puddle.

So if you can - try to get eye contact.

Also get the skill of the discreet glance backs and listen .. listen . The sound of the engine can tell you if the muppet is intending to overtake. As he passes -listen out for the tell tale sound of a changed gear. Look at the oncoming traffic.. Look at his wheels - they tell you more than his signals.
When all that fails - and provided it's safe to do so - just a light slap as suggested - and remember to smile when eye contact is made. :wink: I know it's difficult at times - but do it. It helps foster that bond and perhaps makes that driver just think how his driving affected another road user.

We will not make things better by aggression. We can and should strive to deal with hazards calmly and by simple eye contact and a steady smile to ensure our point is made in friend and comradeship will take some of the danger out of a situation even if we have to resort to Peyote's slap. :lol:

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Just thought I'd mention that an impact between the fleshy part of a cyclist and the sheet steel of a vehicle may not always constitute violence (at least not necessarily in an attempt to cause damage).

There have been several times that I can remember (while cycling) when a vehicle has tried to overtake, then turn left on me, when a prudent slap of a side panel caused the driver to rethink their strategy. I would point out the slap was intended to cause a sound, not to cause damage, usually after other warnings weren't heeded (hand signals, shouts etc.).

These actions are nearly always last resort and due to a desperation to be noticed/seen rather than anything aggressive.

I have considered an airhorn (Airzound I believe is their brand name)before, but apparently they tend to be quite fragile, and the temptation to use them on pedestrians would be too great!



I like their sound. Had one on my bike as a boy 8-)

These days though - confess I like my "ting-a-ling-a-ling" :lol:

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Just to second Mad Doc - I would say that the following are essentials for bgove compartments, saddle bags, bookshelves as MUST READS.

Very difficult to give any order of preference to any of these titles - but all are valid and all will give sound tips for folk to incorporate into their own driving and riding styles. Note my choice of words :wink: Take their advice and then look at your own skills and see how you can improve by adding some of those ideas into your style and learning curve.

1, Highway Code. An essential read for all :wink: It's not just a Code... it's sound advice!

2. "Cycle Craft" by John Franklin and available along with other very useful reference books for cyclists from the CTC. A MUST for all in reality as this work explains why a cyclist may be in a primary position when you, the driver, think he should be closer to the kerb. :wink: Not a book "for cyclists" - but something which everyone should read so as to understand the situation better :wink:

3. "Road Craft/Fleet Craft" Same book and on the required reading list for trainee Black Rats. This spells out the skills expected and should be a required part of kit for all those who drive for a living.

4. Motrocycle Craft. Again - per one and three above. eseential reading so that we can understand the needs of the bikers whether on the pedalos or in the cars :wink:

4. "Mind Driving" by Steve Haley. A very fresh insight into all road user skills :bow:


5. "How to be an Expert Driver" - AA publication . Very sound advice.



6. Any book by Paul Ripley, Peter Amey or John Lyon.

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