basingwerk wrote:
To help me make my point and show you it’s relevance, let's put this in a Darwinian context for a minute. In this context, there is a trade-off between rational intellectualisation, and acting on base instinct. A great Darwinian advantage that (some!) humans posses is that we can understand intellectually that innocuous things can be dangerous. We learn, or are taught, not to play silly buggers with plug sockets, eat strange white powders, drink stuff from that bottle at the back of the shed or walk in the middle of the road. These are the types of example you give. We learn not to shoot ourselves, nor walk in front of artillery. To help us when it isn’t obvious, we use flags, signs, shutters, locks, gates, barriers, procedures, life belts, fuses, fire alarms, crash barriers, flashing lights, emergency stop buttons, beach guards and (the list goes on and on).
The A&E is full of people who did not read the instructions on the Black & Decker ..
basingwerk wrote:
However, at a lower level, we share with other animals another great Darwinian advantage - the ability to act impulsively. This is great for spotting a bit of prey and hunting it down on the fly, or for spotting a hole in the oppositions defence and scoring a goal.
It is zest for life - part of mastering the environment, ensuring progeny continues .... and it is fun ensuring progeny continues
basingwerk wrote:
, so you are already in rational intellectualisation mode. If you really want to, you can hurt yourself, but you have to make a little effort to do so.
Call it the red signal - sixth sense - but that zest of life and survival instinct is what stops most of us from doing summat stupid

Most of us learn this in the cradle - instinct or genetic programming.
basingwerk wrote:
Now, when a 9 year old is toodling along the road on his scooter, he is unlikely to be so primed, and he only needs to slip, step or see something interesting in the gutter before light out forever, without ever going near rational intellectualisation mode. So there you are - its too easy to get killed that way, and we need basic protection against it.
The 4 year old foster kid has road sense. He knows cars can hurt. He even tells me to stop at the kerb. My own were the same too.
But basingwerk - none of my younger kids (11 year old foster child, above four year old and my own clued up six year old) are allowed out unsupervised. We all have responsibility to behave and take care of our own safety.
I am also a "good catholic boy" - but being responsible for my own moral standards, christian values and decency was drummed into me as a boy.