I edit to post to you that I also agreed 100% with your post as did IG as he also commended you there.
ben //should let Wildy speak for herself. But she'having a "toes up".
I think you know .. we . well .. we are expecting twins. Oh yes.. both of us are full of excitement at the prospect of new lives .. and also in some state of worry. Wildy' s practical take .. is more .. "can she cope with the breastfeeding and weaning" and mine is more .. can my wife's health stand the pressures of all this involves.
Now why I mention this.. I feel my concerns may make me a bit short tempered and a bit snappily short when I reply to folk here. Bear with me. I am over the moon one moment and worried about my wife the next.. And she? ("let me get on with it Liebchen,..I will nut and knob you later"
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GULP!
But I am concerned for my wife who just demeans me entirely by just taking life as it;'s chucked at her. I am just a mere male here.
Full of the compassion which women never understand ;:wink:
anyway
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vulnerable.
Thats the word I was looking for. I see many cyclists, I don't think many of them understand what it means, or at least understand how it applies to them.
I know exactly what you mean. I do know Charles (IG_ does). I know that person in the flesh. He cares about folk sincerely. As do I.
But some cannot see this. Their loss.
If their English was perfect - they would have an edge. But it's woefully short of a C in the old CSE requirement and I asked my teacher sisters to give me a professional opinion on this. They mark A Levels .. and despite all the press negatives - I will still say the exam passes on most required merits.
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I wait. Biker undertake me on hard shoulder. Storm up the slip road. Now you could argue the trucky would have seen in mirrors.. but this guy had made all his checks und was pulling out
Not if the bike was a lane removed... wingmirrors only give limited degree field of vision, normally focused on adjacent lane.
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Wildy rides a motorbike. A top range Ducati. I do not like her to do so.. but accept she is safe all the same.
I am old fashioned and biking never appealed to me. But I accept my wife's love of her motorbike all the same.
But this also highlights the problem which a trucker driver has. I cannot condemn that truck driver even though a person died here. I accept his family want revenge.. but revenge is not justice .. and that driver is also suffering a severe trauma. I may whine/lament about the stupidity of mankind at times -but I have equal compassion in my reality of life beyond a caustically dry comment on the internet.. that real folk out there are traumatised to an extent which you can only understand if hit by trauma. The Swiss lost Ferdl. I nearly lost my wife. I have treated folk in A&E in the past and IG has vomited on the spot and dealt with folk completely traumatised here.
I think collectively then that we know a bit more than most keyboard warriors on that basis and we understand the desire for revenge on the one side and the objective need forcold justice on the other.
No one can actually understand if they have never experienced this .. and whilst I feel very much for the late Ian P and his family... I also have a kind and sincere thought for the lorry driver here.
Unlike some so far.
But then they want a pat on the back for their posts and I am not giving one.. nor does Charles.
OK Ed did make a good point.. but we want clarifiation on "most cases" as I see no logic in placing myself in such danger at any junction where a really large truck is there.
Now call me acoward if you wish. I happen to enjoy being a Papa and want to play with grandchildren.
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The biker then realised he was not going to make it. He hit the brakes .. He fell off but jumped und rolled out of danger thankfully whilst his bike went under the lorry. - sliding out the other side - hitting the verge und then the barrier.
What gets me with these people is at what point do they think "
why is that car slowing?" I've seen a couple of near misses on zebra crossings where a bike or moped, who can't see past my van has just blitzed past me as I've slowed for crossers only to nearly wipe someone out
I know.
There are countless which never appear in the press but which feature in medic stats. (Peer reviewed
and thus cut ice
Our lurks and trolls hate the fact that Oxford Uni upheld all that last year
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I do wonder though if some junctions can be modified as a fair few are back home to allow the cycle lane to filter left without conflicting with any other traffic at lights. I find it a little strange that cycle lanes such as they exist in UK are not engineered this way..
That would necessitate people who understand traffic flow to design junctions, and that won't work because they'd argue for effective and safe mass movement of traffic ahead of politically correct sensibilities.
aH.. PERHAPS the clockwork choccy cuckoo clocks understand a bit more than the UK does, The peer reviewed stats on their end seem to hold some water in this respect.