I sympathise.
Lots of people drive like that up here too.
Infact, the speed the car is driven on difficult roads is usually inversely proportional to the driver's ability and the car's road holding abilities.
As a child I was a passenger in my father's car when he was hit in very similar circumstances. He was approaching a 90deg right hander with high grass verges masking the view, when "company car man" (it was red - that's all I remember, apart from it being a company car) came round the corner on our side of the road. Again, my father stopped and the guy skidded into us.
Fortunately for me I've always remembered this and have never been keen on country roads. Although my cars have usually been fast and good handling cars, I often have a couple of crap cars up my backside driven by ugly old women, fat middle aged men or children trying to go faster round the bends. I should add that the space widens on the straights, but as I come out of each corner - they're right back up my arse again
My caution is perhaps not helped by having skidded into a telegraph pole straight off a corner on a damp road back when I was 21. That and every week I see at least one car in a field
I've even seen a Police car on it's side in a field once. My dad pulled up to ask the copper if he was ok - and we were told very sharply to "just f*** off"
Without meaning to diverge too much, I've been driven round tiny Welsh valley roads quite a bit by the mother-in-law in her Ford Ka. She doesn't use her gears, and she doesn't ever go above 40mph. That said she doesn't ever seem to slow for the corners either - you know the Welsh ones, which tighten half way round, on slopes, adverse camber, often with 6ft wide mini-floods running across when the topography is right.
Seriously, she plows into these corners with much more commitment than I ever would with my much grippier cars. As a passenger - it's completely unmistakable that we are understeering more of the time - scraping/grating noises, rumbles, excessive steering wheel movement, varying sideload without varying steeringwheel movement......
Not only that, she's chatting the whole time too
Is she really that much more skilled a driver than me? Or is she just completely ignorant to the fact that she is perilously close to the car's absolute limits on every corner - and that should Farmer Jones appear mid bend that she has no options at all?
I guess my point of all this rambling is this:
Is my mother-in-law indicative of the type of mindless "driving" practiced and displayed by most people on the road - including those who could see no reason to ensure that they could control their vehicles properly round blind bends as the OP has suffered twice?